Pono, whakawhetai ki te Atua, kaore matou e noho ana i te wa roa, a, ko te mea he wehewehe i to taatau ture. Na, ki te mea kua marenatia taau hoa aroha, kaore tenei ka waiho hei raruraru kore. Engari ko te whakarereketanga he tino uaua, a kaore ano kia whakatauhia e te katoa. Na me pehea te awhina i taau hoa aroha ki te whakatau i te wehewehe, ki te mea kua marama ki a korua e aroha ana ia ki a koe, me te wahine ke, kaore ia e hari ana?
Hei timata, me whakarite he raupapa hei korero, he tikanga rongonui, ki te hapu, ki te tuku ranei ki to hoa wahine, ki o whakaahua (me te nuinga o te tere o te marena i roto i to wahine), ka waatea i te wa kotahi. A ehara i te mea ko nga whakaaro o te hinengaro, engari na te mea ka whakatuwheratia, koinei te huarahi tino pai ki te ngaro i te tangata e arohaina ana. A, i te mea e whakaatu ana, ka mahi ano nga mahi a te iwi, ka whakatuwherahia enei tinihangatanga i roto i te 99 nga take i roto i te 100, no te mea kia pai ai te tangata ki a koe, me haere ia ki te wehe ia ia me te mohio. Engari ko te roa o tana whakatau i a ia, i nga marama, i nga tau ranei o te pawera me te manawanui, ka taea te haere. Na, kia titiro atu ki etahi tohutohu mo te awhina i ta tatou hoa aroha ki te huri ki tana wahine.
Ko te Kaunihera tuatahi, ara tika, poto rawa.
I a ratou e ki ana "ko te pono ko te kaupapa here pai!", I etahi wa, kaore he mea ke, he tino pena. I muri i te katoa, he hononga hou ki to hoa aroha, he pai ki te timata i nga kupu pono. Korero atu ki a ia me kaha ake to whanaungatanga, kia kite koe kei te koa ia ki tana wahine. Ko te noho i runga i nga hapu e rua ehara i te waahanga, me te mea nui, nui atu te kino o te katoa. Na ki a koe ano, a koe me tana wahine. Kaua e tautohetohe me te whakawehi anake, me tika ki te whakamarama ki a ia i to raatau tirohanga mo te waahi, kaore koe e kii wawe i te whakautu, ka hoatu he wa ki a koe ki te whakaaro. Ka taea e koe te hoki ki tenei whakawhitinga korero maha, engari kaore i te nuinga o nga wa, kaore e hiahia ana koe ki te pupuhi i runga i to roro me te kuru. He maha nga wa ko tenei korero kaore i te nui nga tangata ki te whakatau ki te tuku mo te whakarere.
Ko te tohutohu tuarua, whakaatu ki a ia he pai ake koe.
Ka haere mai matou i te meka ka kite te tangata ia koe he pai ake koe i tana hoa o tenei ra. Engari kaore e nui ake te whakanui i to mana. Mena he pai ake koe, ko tenei me te noho, kaore koe e puta ki mua ia ia kaore i te whakapaipai, kaua e tutaki ki a ia i roto i te kakahu tawhito, me pupuri tonu koe i te pa. Mena he marama ake koe, ka whakaatuhia, ka whakawhiti korero ki te taumata hinengaro e kore e taea e te wahine te tuku. He rite ano te tikanga mo te tunu kai, mo te moenga me tetahi mea. Me whakapumautia to ratau mana, a ka hiahia te tangata ake kia noho tahi me koe, a ka tuku ia mo te whakarere. He pono, ka whai raruraru tenei tikanga, ki te angitu, me haere tonu ki te pupuri i tetahi taahiranga teitei, ki te whakamarama i nga korero ki tetahi taumata tino nui ake nei, i te mea he nui te raruraru.
I roto i te korero ki tenei wa, me tapiri e kore e tika te korero teka, mehemea kaore koe e mohio ki te tunu, kaua e whakapae koe ka pai ake koe i tana mahi! Kia mahara, ko te korero i runga ko "te pono, te kaupapa here pai"!
Ko te tohutohu tuatoru. Whakaatuhia he kino atu ia.
Ko te ingoa o te ingoa, ko tenei tohutohu e haere tahi ana me te mea o mua. Engari kei a ia ano nga tohu e whakaarohia ana. Tuatahi, kaua e kino ki ta korua wahine. Kaore ana he whaikorero e whakaatu ki a ia, he mea nui, i muri i te katoa, ka marena ia ia, ka taea e ia te whakamatau ia ia. Na reira, me whakaatu ana he hapa ki a ia, ka waiho tenei hei whakahonore ki a koe, ki tana kanohi.
Na i te mutunga ...
I a koe e mohio ana, ko enei tohutohu kaore i te ao, hei tauira, ki te mea he mokopuna a tetahi wahine me tana wahine he pakihi noa, ka taea e tenei te whakararu. Na, i mua i te tīmatanga o te hoahoa o to hoa kia whakarere, me whakaaroaro koe me te whakaaro ki te take.