1. "Mauruuru, e aroha, e hiahia ana koe ki te awhina i ahau kia ma, engari ka tere atu i a koe ..."
He uaua te wahine e mahi ana i roto i te whare wheketere, i te whare whakahaere ranei. He raruraru raruraru tenei, e kaha ana ki te mahi i nga mea katoa, he mea kore noa ki te whakapau i tona kaha. Ehara i te mea me tahuri ki te awhina i te awhina o te tangata ina hiahia ana ia ki te awhina i a koe, a kaore pea e ruarua tona kaha ki te hohoro ki te mahi wawe. Engari ka whakaarohia e te tangata kaore ia e pai ki a koe i etahi ara, a kaore kau i whakaae ki a koe. He pai ake te tuku ki a ia i tetahi mea mai i to waahi whakataunga, kaore e tu i tona wairua, ka whakamahi i te wa waatea mo te whakarite hakari. Engari kia tino whakawhetai ki to tangata mo tenei hiahia kia awhina koe.
2. "He kuware ahau, i taea e koe te whakatika i te taputapu rewenui."
Kaore i te whakaatu i to awangawanga ka taea e ia te mahi i tetahi mea mo te whare kaore i te awhina a tetahi kaitohutohu i karangatia. Ka ki a Dr. Casey, ka pa ki a koe te panui ki te aroha ki a ia. Kaore nga tane e hiahia ana ki a raatau wahine ki te ruarua i to ratau tane "whakaari." Ka pai ki te whakarongo: "He ataahua koe, he mohio, he taraka o nga mahi toi katoa. Ka kite ahau kua tino pai taku marena. "Ko ta koutou whakahirahira mo tana taangata nui e whakaatu ana ehara ia i te macho i te moenga mo koutou.
3. "Ko koe anake te tangata e taea e ahau te korero."
Kaore tetahi tangata e hiahia ana kia noho i roto i tetahi tangata to hoa, ko taku whaea. Kaua e whakararu ia ia ki nga taumahatanga kaha o te hinengaro: "Ko te kaupapa tautoko anake mo koe ko te kaha nui ki a ia," ko ta te kaitohutohu mo te marena raihana me te kaitohutohu a te whānau a KarinGoldstein. Mo te kaha ake o te painga, kaore i te nui ki te korero ko ia to tangata tino pai. Whakamātauria ki te whakapūmau ki a ia ahakoa ahakoa he whai wāhitanga koe ki te korero ki to whaea me o hoa i tetahi wa, ko ia te kaika whakarongo pai. He pai ki te korero ki a ia. Ko tana hiahia kia whai hua ki te takaro me a koe kupu, e tino painga ana koe ki tona whakaaro.
4. "Ehara tenei taonga i toku reka, engari ka kitea e ahau he tono mo taua mea."
Mauruuru ki a ia mo te atawhai. Engari kaua e ngana ki te kawe atu ki a ia, ki tona whaea ano tana taonga whakamutunga - ko te kaki i whiriwhiria e ia mo Dyusyasvyatogo Valentine. Ka pahure noa te tangata, ka mea kaore ia e mohio ki te pakaru. "Ko te ahua o te kanohi," e ai ta Goldstein. "Kaore ia e ngana ki te hoatu ki a koe i tetahi atu wa." Whakaarohia te atawhai o to tangata, me etahi wa e mau ana i tana hakari. I mua i te keehi motuhake ka whai ake, korero ki te toa ki nga taonga e hiahia ana koe ki te tango.
5. "E pai ana ahau ki te kopu me te vyalyemuskuly."
Engari, ki te marena te tane i mua i to hiahia ki nga poraka o te ripoata a Ryan Gosling, ko ia anake e uru ana ki nga ngakau kaore e mohio, kia tino mohio. Kei te tono a Dr. Brochet ki a koe ki te korero ki to hoa hoa he hoa pai ia mo koe, he papa atawhai hoki o nga tamariki, kaore he whakataurite mo te "turanga" me nga uaua nui, e arotahi ana ki a ia anake. Ma tenei ka mohio ia ki nga mea e tino nui ana ki a koe, e rite ana ki a koe te reka.
6. "Ko koe te pai ..."
He pai te tangata ki a koe i runga i te moenga, engari kaore ia e hiahia ana ki te mohio ki o hoa o mua. Ka mahara tonu koe ki enei katoa ka timata ki te whakarite. Hei whakaatu i a ratau i runga i te moenga, kia piri ki te wheako tawhito, ka uru ki a ia. Ka tūtohu a Dr. Broch ki te korero e pai ana koe ina pai ana ia. Ko te kaha o te whanaungatanga ki te hoa, kaore i runga i nga whakataurite.